Ladies, has this ever happened to you? You have a girlfriend, who, time after time, bails on your getting together because she received an invitation from a guy. After you’d already made plans. Because you’re such a good friend, you murmur approvingly and say you understand.

Deep down inside, you’re starting to become resentful and you feel more than a bit neglected. Here’s a news flash for you; guys don’t break guy plans to spend time with you, so you might want to think twice before cancelling gal pal plans for a guy. In truth, if he cared for you at all he’d be the first one to insist that you keep your original plan.

“First come, First served” is a popular business policy. So why aren’t relationships like that too? Being with friends occasionally is not going to tear a strong relationship apart. Actually it will make it stronger because it shows all concerned that you have a life of your own too. Don’t forget, you’ve likely known your friends a lot longer than you’ve know your sweetie. (more…)

While walking through a crowd, you hear the chatter and laughter all around. You see couples walking by smiling and holding hands. You wonder to yourself, how did they meet? Did they meet at the grocery store, while during laundry or are they result of an internet dating connection?

Just about now you’re wishing that you were part of a twosome. You’re not alone; almost everyone has felt this way at one point or another. Along with this wish they wonder why they haven’t found that special someone yet. Because that’s the way things are supposed to go, right? You go to school, start a career, fall in love.

After the falling in love part comes marriage and the baby carriage; or so you thought. Life seems to have other plans for you, but don’t give up! By keeping a positive attitude, it’s really just a matter of time before you meet someone to call your own.

In the meantime it’s important that you live your life to the fullest. While you’re single, take advantage of the situation by doing things that you might not be able to do if you were part of a twosome. (more…)